Anonymous Internet Discussion Forum


Love and Romance

### You are viewing a page indexed by search engine. All comments on the topic are put together without order and may be confusing to read. To see organized discussion click here. ###

What is love?

Love is the only justification for the meaning of the word eternity. Damn someone beat me to "baby don't hurt me." Love is not everything, lets not romanticize it (puns!). But seriously, love is understanding and appreciating something to an extreme. The premise is illogical. Your lack of understanding is not a sign of your perceptive ability. Your confusion is actually discernment. Oh you know what love is! ;-) And I mean know the true love. Many would pass on false ideas of love. Or speak of it as if they knew it but do not. Because if they knew, their lives would be different. If you don't love, you don't know love. I know it. It is God. If you know love, you know God. It only exists in action.making someone happyLove is an illness, as well as a cure.
Love is something you might die over, as well as the only thing you'll live for.
Love is pain, as well as pleasure.
Love is sadness, as well as happiness.
Love is complicated. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.[1] Love is everything and every thing is love You can't define it. There is so many interpretations of love. It is becoming an ideal. To love someone means that you think that they are "better" at something that you cherish than you are at that same thing.
Love is not compassion, love is selfish, and that's a good thing. You want the best person for yourself. Love is the complete opposite of altruism, it is the most selfish and by definition the happiest thing you will ever face and feel.

If you don't think that love is selfish think of it this way; would you have sex with a homeless person just to make them feel good?[2]Love is not a pinnacle of human compassion, quite the opposite. Love is a reverence for another person. Love is earned by another person because they are "worth" more to you than other people who are "worth" less. To have a higher "worth" means to have capabilities that you value in yourself. To love someone therefore means that you feel/think that the values that you truly cherish are shared by the loved one and that they are NECESSARILY better in those values than you. To live is to suffer. To live without love is to suffer more. Therefore to suffer less, we must love.
Love thyself and love thy neighbor
Love the ocean and the seas
Love the blue sky and the sunset
Love the humming of the bees.
I love mornings, I love evenings
and the fleeting seasons four
Love this world so full of wonders
But my suffering even more

Love is believing that no one is wrong. It is what governs Earth. Baby don't hurt me. Suffering is not only an essential aspect of the human experience, it is the most essential. Without suffering, life would be nothing. Love is unavoidable, or deadly when avoided. Suffering is not only related to love. Without suffering we would not be able to appreciate pleasure and happiness. What do you benefit out of love? Shit all. Everyone's going to die anyway so just enjoy life, don't sit here fucking wandering and dwelling over what love is, trying to work it out.. If you think you're in love and you're happy then so what?
To whoever said this: 'Love is an ideal thing, marriage a real thing.' Marriage doesn't prove anyone anything..? Just exists on a piece of paper.
But depression can be proved. It has physiological symptoms: it is associated with changes neurotransmitters (substances in the brain), such as serotonin, dopamine and norepinephrine. In fact, taking medications which regulate these substances brings patients out of depression. Love is a feeling portrayed by the individual withholding it, it cannot be proved, it's like saying depression can be proved. its just a concept, a man-made feeling. what you feel when you think you're in love, how do you know it's love? as everyone feels different, experiences it differently. or is it lust? they're all just emotions and concepts that can't be proved. therefore i think the definition is not: to be willing & lovingly attached to someone, but: the self-fulfilling enjoyment of lust Does the loved one suffer, or is (s)he happy? Love hurts whether it's right or wrong. Why does loving have to result in suffering? I don't understand that premise. Love is a set of virtues. Suffering gives birth to a virtue. Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more. This is very amusing. I'm finding it hard to discriminate between whether this is Comedy or truthfulness. It is very funny, but it does shine light on the truth, that often one must suffer for those they love, and that this suffering can in fact cause the greatest of happiness.It is the pinnacle of human compassion. It is selfless devotion to others. It is pity to those who have fallen. It is praise for those who have risen. It is Truth. It is God. It is nothing. It is everything.I love you.
Tell me, what do you do?You're funny :). love is to folow, trust, belive, and aid someone blindly without any refrence to logic, put shortly an impulse/instinct. its also a great cause for suicide Love is me. ♥ To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down. Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence. Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other. Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. Love is an ideal thing, marriage a real thing. Attention is the most basic form of love. What is love?

Expand a current thought with...



copyleft © 2011 - About - Terms of use