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I am getting married this summmer. My sexual fantasies have been about my 1st kiss guy. Is it ok 4 me to fantasize about those memories w/ my husband secretly?

You own your thoughts until you say them. Every time I eat sushi I think of that Japanese restaurant in Manhattan where I tried it for the first time. The same way I guess my wife thinks of the guy that took her virginity every time we make love. Fantasy won't be complete if you don't ask him to fantasize about his 1st girlfriend as well. Of course it is acceptable! We cannot forget our past. Our past made us who we are today, and it is you of today, shaped by your past, who your husband loves. You should not be ashamed of it. Be yourself. I do not know what if any effect it will have upon your relationship.

I suggest praying to God that he will give you wisdom so that you will make the right judgement.

It's written someone where in the bible.

Jesus Christ said:
"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light."

Love you. I am getting married this summmer. My sexual fantasies have been about my 1st kiss guy. Is it ok 4 me to fantasize about those memories w/ my husband secretly?





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