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All people want happiness.

Even more then I expected, I want to travail-see the world, could I do that ? The way I want to? Am I destined to be alone- what if I leave him and I can't find anyone else, all I want is to be happy how do I do that when I don't know what my next move will be what I should do or need to do I never want to louse a good man but I feel like I haven't experienced life to its fullest would this take away any chance I ever had or make my options grow... I'm scared Down so quickly to the point I won't be able to escape or if I'm doing the right thing, what if I'm not, what if I'm supposed to be with my ideal man, but that's what everyone fears... to miss out...He is so good to me deals with me but I feel bad that I want to ask for more I want to scream-I want to tell him that I don't know if I actually love him when I feel like I do... what if I can't love what if everything I think might happen happens... I won't be able to be free... Or will it fee me I've never been here and I feel rather selfish writing this...i don't know if I'm happy, well I want to be happy I should be happy but I don't know if I'm happy. I have a boyfriend who loves me more than anything, he doesn't know it but he is the only real boyfriend I've had and I'm 21. I can't help but think that I want some be tied down way to young and it's not him that's doing it it's me- I love him don't get me wrong but I don't know if the best steps in my life will be me tying myself Glad you pointed that out, true, the statement would show that I am happy about being unhappy. But by concentrating on being unhappy, I don't notice my contentment, and therefore only feel the grumpy/hatefulness I usually am. And I'd suppose that most unhappy people would definatly want to be happy, seems only normal, but possibly in their unhappiness they can't see themselves being happy?

I guess we may have different opinions of what happiness means:

- some people are happy being unhappy - so does not that make them happy?

- some are content being grumpy and hateful - isn't content synonymous with satisfaction, and isn't satisfaction a form of happiness?

- some simply can't be happy - but would they want to be as the original statement suggested?

Not true, there are people who for them, happiness is impossible to achieve. And I don't mean depression. No, simply that they can't be happy. For whatever reason, its just not attainable. Some are happy just being unhappy. I myself am perfectly content being grumpy and hateful. I don't like it, but its the only thing I know, and anything else would just make me even more angry. I'm not mean about it, I just can't be happy about anything. Why then masochists want pain? Instead of avoiding suffering which most people leads to state of happiness, they try to find suffering.
All people want happiness.
What makes people happy?





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