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He said he's a guy, genius. Im an older guy who would love to have some of that. Its not the accepted standard for "normal", but you can find men who would want you and have a happy, healthy relationship. Just make sure that the guy you are with isnt just in it for the sex - he should genuinely care about your feelings. It is very normal; many girls have attraction for mature males. HOwever i will suggest to chose the match according to your age and interest. Attraction may be because of any reasons. [1] in my experience this is not extremely abnormal. I just wish i could have spoked to someone about it.I am 16 (male) and attracted to older men (like 30s/40's). Is this a normal thing?