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Why did i get married?
Why did i get married? I was very curious to understand 'woman', have sex with her, love her, get loved, have children, experience fatherhood. Curiosity about the unknown experiences got me married. Of course, the main reason is the intense attraction to the opposite sex and desire to have sex frequently in a safe manner with the loved person. Also to have companionship and not be lonely. It makes you feel complete in society if you're married and have kids.That isn't a nice thing to say, it is never nice to call someone names and demoralise them by calling them stupid. We all make mistakes and that is what makes us human. In regards to this marriage problem, haven't you seen a couples counsellor to sort this out? Get everything out in the open so you can all feel better and have no regrets afterwards marriage and long term sex dont go together, sorry you are wrong. Marriage is one of the most evil things you can do to yourself and your loved one if you are not careful, or if you were "acting" during courting with the same person.
Marrying someone means that you "lock" them into the relationship, thereby having a "monopoly" on their body time and influence.
Like every other monopoly it is a terrible idea to do. People get fat, mistreat each other because they know that the other person cannot leave since you have monopoly over them. Marriage = bad; Marriage is there to force a couple to stay together by introducing a third party--the State--to intervene by providing benefits if you stay together and punishments if you leave the marriage. You got married because you are stupid. You are suffering now because you are stupid. It is stupid to believe that you, or anyone, does not deserve to suffer.
It's completely retarded to believe in any kind of correlation between being semi-attractive and physically fit and having love. Maybe women don't like you because you're whiny. and stupid. Sex with someone you love is consistently ranked as a top source of happiness. A marriage is a long-term loving partnership which encourages this type of sex. Why did I got born? What is the purpose of I am here on Earth? What is my Karma? Similar questions were asked by many people before. But from a spiritual view point one has birth, childhood, adolescence, youth, old and death. At each stage you are doing your "Dharma" or duty to obligate based on your "Karma" or work. Marriage is ones Dharma for him (family) and this nature (Earth) Grow a pair and have an affair.See if you can find yourself a well priced copy of The Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale.You want to stay with your wife. It's obvious. You've been trying to come up with plans to get her interested in you because you want to be with her. God does not want you to get divorced. "For I hate divorce!" says the LORD, the God of Israel. "To divorce your wife is to overwhelm her with cruelty," says the LORD of Heaven's Armies. "So guard your heart; do not be unfaithful to your wife.""I love you so much and I want you to be happy. I've been feeling a bit pessimistic over the last few weeks because I lost my job and really get a strong sense of self-worth from my job. You, my darling wife, are the greatest thing in my life and I really need to know that you love me right now. I will get a new job. I will do everything that I can to make a good life for both of us (and our children). Please stand by me."Mate. You're half wipped the moment you start feeling sorry for yourself or start blaming someone else for your mistakes. What that guy said about staying the fuck away from jelousy was right. Don't go their my friend.
Please. Your wife should be the closest person to you. Hope for the best. Then talk to her about it. Talk to God about it. Know your outcome.
Better sex? more romance? more spontaneity? Do you communicate frequently? What are her core needs, wants, desires?Jesus said to his disciples: "Things that cause people to sin are bound to come, but woe to that person through whom they come. It would be better for him to be thrown into the sea with a millstone tied around his neck than for him to cause one of these little ones to sin."
Sin: A serious mistake contrary to God's will."An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind." - Ghandi
"Anger is cruel and fury overwhelming, but who can stand before jealousy?" - Solomon (Christian Bible: Proverbs 27:4).
Please ignore the people who are trying to destroy your relationship. Moving towards other women with the intention of making your spouse jelous will cause you both immense suffering.
"Rescue those being led away to death; hold back those staggering toward slaughter." (Christian Bible Proverbs 24:11)You felt it natural to be bind yourself to another. I am not married although I understand why you are married. It's the next stage of the adventure. An adventure; a journey which lasts for eternity. Though I don't think you'll be married in the next world so please delight in your spouse for as long as you are together. Love your spouse, care for your spouse, bless your spouse and together seek to be closer to God. God is the begining and the ending and no one comes to God except through Jesus.
Love stories start, love stories end, it's a fact of life. It is unfortunate that you lost your job last year. It is time to plan afresh. Life sucks? Give it a fresh start. Think of where you will be one year from now, what job you will be at and what woman will love you if you just give yourself another chance. Get away from it all. Go away on a secluded trip that does not have cell phone signals. Being away with a group of similar people who are like yourself, go camping in the woods for a few weekends a month. Being away will re-kindle her fondness of you because you never know what you have until it is gone. Just remind her of her love for you by being away from her. Distance makes the heart grow fonder. Remind her of your love by being away. . maybe i should try to make her jalous by starting communicating with some nice women. i think that may get her interested in me again. it seemed like a good idea at the time but i guess like a lot of things in life things change. my wife has lost interest in me and it makes me feel pretty redundant. doesnt help i actually got made redundant from my job last year. sorry this is depressing but i consider myself an ok sort of person, likable and not hideous, i work out regularly and have a good job. why cant i be happy and have a fulfilling relationship? it doesnt make any sense ... and here i am, another boring nite at home I finally found a man that was good to me and that I love. You wanted to be like everybody else. You got bored of chasing women. You liked being pampered on a daily basis. You were confused. You were getting older. You were afraid. You wanted to see your man/woman every morning when you wake up. You were brave. ...
Why did you get married?